The Gift That Wants Things
Daily Traditions · July 13
Imagine a donor who'll give generously — but only if the group buys the literature rack he likes, in the spot he wants, with his name on it. A gift with a wish attached. Then a wish becomes an expectation, and an expectation becomes a vote. The Long Form's line is exact: any contribution "carrying any obligation whatever, is unwise." The moment a dollar comes with instructions, it isn't support anymore. It's steering.
What "generosity" in my life came with a steering wheel?
Grounded in: Long form (obligation → authority).
This is a hypothetical. The situation described above is illustrative — an imagined scenario used to think a Tradition through. It is not a real group, not a report of anything that happened, and not a rule we invented. The Traditions belong to A.A.; we're only reading them plainly.
Tradition 7
"Every A.A. group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside contributions."
And a distinction worth keeping straight: the Traditions are governance, not theology. They bind A.A. groups and the Fellowship — not individuals, and not outside businesses. They were adopted in 1950 to keep A.A. from being owned or co-opted. They are not a rulebook for your personal life.
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