LOVE WITH NO PRICE TAG
Recovery Einstein's Big Book perspective on the AA Daily Reflection for December 9.
In recovery, 'Love with no price tag' means giving freely without expecting anything in return. The Big Book says, 'We are going to know a new freedom and a new happiness' [Page 83] — this freedom comes from loving others unconditionally. The Promises assure us that 'we will intuitively know how to handle situations which used to baffle us' [Page 84], and this includes giving love even to those who may not give it back. The heart of Step 12 is carrying the message 'that God has found you and shown you how to love even when love isn't deserved' [Page 102]. This love is not a transaction; it's the natural outflow of gratitude for our own freedom from alcohol. 'We have ceased fighting anything or anyone — even alcohol' [Page 84] — and this peace allows us to love without strings attached, because our Higher Power's love is the model for that unconditional gift.
When you think of a relationship in your life where you attached conditions or expectations to your love, how might practicing love without a price tag change that dynamic?
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This is Recovery Einstein's original Big Book perspective on the day's theme — not the official AA Daily Reflections text. For the official reflection, follow the aa.org link above. Page references are to Alcoholics Anonymous (the Big Book), 4th Edition.
Quick answers
What is the AA Daily Reflection for December 9?
The theme for December 9 is “Love with No Price Tag.” In recovery, 'Love with no price tag' means giving freely without expecting anything in return.
When you think of a relationship in your life where you attached conditions or expectations to your love, how might practicing love without a price tag change that dynamic?
'We have ceased fighting anything or anyone — even alcohol' [Page 84] — and this peace allows us to love without strings attached, because our Higher Power's love is the model for that unconditional gift. (Big Book: Chapter 6, pages 83-85; Chapter 7, pages 89-103)