FAMILY OBLIGATIONS
Recovery Einstein's Big Book perspective on the AA Daily Reflection for June 11.
Family obligations take on new meaning in recovery. The Big Book reminds us that our first duty is to maintain our own sobriety, for without that we are useless to anyone. But it also warns against using the program as an escape from family responsibilities. On page 127, it says: 'We realize that we have been placed on earth to be of maximum service to God and the people about us.' This includes our families. We're not to neglect them, nor to smother them. Page 130 offers wisdom: 'It is possible to have too much of a good thing.' The key is balance—showing up for our families without letting their problems lure us back to drink. The Promises on page 84 assure us that as we work the Steps, we will know a new freedom and happiness that extends to our home life.
How have your family obligations changed since you got sober, and where do you draw the line between helping and over-involvement?
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This is Recovery Einstein's original Big Book perspective on the day's theme — not the official AA Daily Reflections text. For the official reflection, follow the aa.org link above. Page references are to Alcoholics Anonymous (the Big Book), 4th Edition.
Quick answers
What is the AA Daily Reflection for June 11?
The theme for June 11 is “Family Obligations.” Family obligations take on new meaning in recovery.
How have your family obligations changed since you got sober, and where do you draw the line between helping and over-involvement?
The Promises on page 84 assure us that as we work the Steps, we will know a new freedom and happiness that extends to our home life. (Big Book: Chapter 9, pages 122-135)