WE FORGIVE . . .
Recovery Einstein's Big Book perspective on the AA Daily Reflection for May 16.
Forgiveness in recovery isn't about pretending the hurt didn't happen—it's about letting go of the poison of resentment. The Big Book tells us that resentment is the 'number one offender' that destroys more alcoholics than anything else [Page 64]. We learn that harboring resentment blocks us from the sunlight of the Spirit, so we must ask God to help us show 'tolerance, pity, and patience' toward those who have wronged us [Page 66]. Forgiveness is not optional; it's a spiritual necessity for staying sober and finding peace. When we make amends, we often find that the person we need to forgive most is ourselves.
Is there someone I am still holding a grudge against—and am I willing to ask my Higher Power to remove that resentment so I can forgive freely?
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This is Recovery Einstein's original Big Book perspective on the day's theme — not the official AA Daily Reflections text. For the official reflection, follow the aa.org link above. Page references are to Alcoholics Anonymous (the Big Book), 4th Edition.
Quick answers
What is the AA Daily Reflection for May 16?
The theme for May 16 is “We Forgive . . ..” Forgiveness in recovery isn't about pretending the hurt didn't happen—it's about letting go of the poison of resentment.
Is there someone I am still holding a grudge against—and am I willing to ask my Higher Power to remove that resentment so I can forgive freely?
When we make amends, we often find that the person we need to forgive most is ourselves. (Big Book: Chapter 6, pages 77-84)