Would Disintegrate
Daily Traditions · May 24
A group breaks Tradition Five on its own the night it votes to stop going out to the drinker. Picture the business meeting. For years the group has sent two members to the detox ward on Thursdays. Lately the slot is hard to fill. Someone says the facility runs its own meeting now. Someone else says the local A.A. office handles hospitals. The motion passes: drop it. Nothing else changes. The meeting still opens on time, and the coffee is still good. Bill W. wrote in 1947 about what lasting groups do instead (A.A. pamphlet P-17, p. 38): "they stick to their single purpose of helping alcoholics to recover." And why: "Groups see they would disintegrate if they didn't." Disintegrate means come apart, slowly, piece by piece. A group that has stopped reaching drinkers has nobody new coming through the door, and in a few years it is the same twelve people, then eight. The Long Form (Big Book, p. 563) gives the job to each group, not to a committee somewhere else: "carrying its message to the alcoholic who still suffers." Test it tonight: ask what your group did last month that reached a drinker who wasn't already in the room.
Bill saw that groups which stop helping alcoholics to recover come apart. What did my group do last month for a drinker outside the room?
Grounded in: Long form, Tradition 5 (Big Book, p. 563); P-17, p. 38 (Bill W., 1947).
Tradition 5
"Each group has but one primary purpose—to carry its message to the alcoholic who still suffers."
And a distinction worth keeping straight: the Traditions are governance, not theology. They bind A.A. groups and the Fellowship — not individuals, and not outside businesses. They were adopted in 1950 to keep A.A. from being owned or co-opted. They are not a rulebook for your personal life.
Daily Traditions is an independent educational resource from Recovery Starts — not official A.A. literature, not affiliated with Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, and not medical advice. The Twelve Traditions are the property of A.A. Page references are to Alcoholics Anonymous (the Big Book), 4th Edition: short form 561–562, long form 563–566. If you're in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline).