Dutiful Children
Daily Traditions · April 17
Before Tradition Four was written, the groups around New York had settled that no group answers to another, not even the one that started it. Bill W. told the story in 1947 (A.A. pamphlet P-17, p. 20). The Manhattan club had nurtured the first suburban groups. As they grew they found their own rooms and their own friends. The club ran a central meeting and paid a secretary who took calls for the whole area, so, Bill admitted, New Yorkers thought "our outlying groups ought financially to support the Manhattan club; dutiful children should look after their" parents. The groups never argued. They simply decided for themselves: "Though many outlying A.A. members personally contributed to the 24th Street Club, nary a cent did their respective groups ever send in." Nary a cent means not one cent. Members gave as they chose; the groups kept their money for their own affairs, and nobody could make them do otherwise. That is the Long Form's first sentence before it was written down (Big Book, p. 563): each group "should be responsible to no other authority than its own conscience." Today the parent may be a big meeting, an office or a program that started a group and still expects it to obey. Test it tonight: ask whether any older group, office or person can tell your group what to do with its basket.
The Manhattan club called the new groups its children, and the groups answered by running their own affairs. Does my group still answer to whoever started it?
Grounded in: Long form, Tradition 4 (Big Book, p. 563); P-17, p. 20 (Bill W., "Clubs in A.A.", 1947).
Tradition 4
"Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups or A.A. as a whole."
And a distinction worth keeping straight: the Traditions are governance, not theology. They bind A.A. groups and the Fellowship — not individuals, and not outside businesses. They were adopted in 1950 to keep A.A. from being owned or co-opted. They are not a rulebook for your personal life.
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