No Respecter of Persons
Daily Traditions · January 18
Tradition One makes every member the same size, and the threat today is a room that quietly sorts its people into two kinds. The Long Form (Big Book, p. 563): "Each member of Alcoholics Anonymous is but a small part of a great whole." Each member: not each member who chose to come, not each member in good standing. The Big Book's foreword says why the room can't be sorted (Big Book, p. xx): "Alcohol being no respecter of persons, we are an accurate cross section of America, and in distant lands, the same democratic evening-up process is now going on." No respecter of persons means it does not care who you are. Evening-up means levelling: whoever you were outside, in the room you are one more drunk. Now watch a meeting where a facility's van pulls up. The clients file in together, sit in a block, sign a sheet, and leave together before the coffee. The members sit on the other side. Nobody planned it, but there are now two rooms in one: people who are there because a program sent them, and people who belong. The client never learns that he belongs too. Test it tonight: look at where people sit, and ask whether a newcomer off a van would know this room is his.
Alcohol does not sort people, so the room cannot either. Is there anyone in my meeting who sits there without knowing it is theirs?
Grounded in: Long form, Tradition 1 (Big Book, p. 563); Big Book p. xx (Foreword to Second Edition).
Tradition 1
"Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends upon A.A. unity."
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