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Tradition 3 · March 24

Five Dollars at the Door

Daily Traditions · March 24

How a group breaks it

A group that charges at the door has made membership depend on money, however good its reason, and the Long Form rules that out in plain words. The rent goes up. The basket has been thin for months. At the business meeting someone proposes a simple fix: five dollars at the door, waived for anyone who really can't pay. It sounds fair, and it passes. Now picture the man on his first night with nothing in his pockets, who has to say so to a stranger with a cash box before he gets a chair. The Long Form (Big Book, p. 563): "Nor ought A.A. membership ever depend upon money or conformity." The rent is real, and A.A. never pretended otherwise. When the money question got a hard look at the 1955 convention, Bill W. reported (A.A. Comes of Age): "There was complete unanimity that through voluntary contributions the legitimate bills of groups, areas, and A.A. as a whole must be paid or we could not properly carry our message." Voluntary contributions pay the bills. The principle Bill names in the same passage is "no compulsory fees or dues." The answer to a thin basket is to tell the members, not to charge the drunk. Test it tonight: ask whether someone could sit in your meeting for a year without paying a cent, and be just as much a member.

Sit with

A door charge, even one that can be waived, makes the newest drunk explain his empty pockets before he sits down. Could someone come to my group for a year without paying and still be a full member?

Grounded in: Long form, Tradition 3 (Big Book, p. 563); A.A. Comes of Age (When A.A. Came of Age — the St. Louis convention, 1955).

Tradition 3

"The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking."
Read the Long Form (pp. 563–566). The short form on pp. 561–562 is the one everybody quotes — but the Long Form is where the Traditions actually say what they mean. Tradition 3's "no other affiliation" clause, for instance, exists only in the Long Form. That single clause is why no treatment centre can own an A.A. group. Most of what circulates online skips it.

And a distinction worth keeping straight: the Traditions are governance, not theology. They bind A.A. groups and the Fellowship — not individuals, and not outside businesses. They were adopted in 1950 to keep A.A. from being owned or co-opted. They are not a rulebook for your personal life.

Daily Traditions is an independent educational resource from Recovery Starts — not official A.A. literature, not affiliated with Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, and not medical advice. The Twelve Traditions are the property of A.A. Page references are to Alcoholics Anonymous (the Big Book), 4th Edition: short form 561–562, long form 563–566. If you're in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline).