Any Way They Liked
Daily Traditions · March 21
The Long Form gives two or three alcoholics a freedom so wide it alarms people, because the alternative is someone with the power to decide what A.A. is. The Long Form (Big Book, p. 563): "Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as a group, they have no other affiliation." Bill W. did not soften it (A.A. Comes of Age): "This means that these two or three alcoholics could try for sobriety in any way they liked. They could disagree with any or all of A.A.'s principles and still call themselves an A.A. group." He saw the threat on the other side. Without that liberty, A.A. could harden into "a frozen set of dogmatic principles that could not be changed even when obviously wrong." Dogmatic means laid down as law, not to be questioned. And he trusted the bottle to do the correcting no office could: "In the end the innovators would have to adopt A.A. principles—at least some of them— in order to remain sober at all." Notice the one line the clause does draw. Not style, not format, not belief. Affiliation. Today the danger arrives as somebody's list of approved meetings. Test it tonight: when someone says a group "isn't real A.A.," ask whether they mean it has another affiliation, or only that it does things differently.
The Long Form lets two or three alcoholics do it their own way, and draws its one line at affiliation. When my group calls another group "not real A.A.," which line is it using?
Grounded in: Long form, Tradition 3 (Big Book, p. 563); A.A. Comes of Age (Unity: the Second Legacy).
Tradition 3
"The only requirement for A.A. membership is a desire to stop drinking."
And a distinction worth keeping straight: the Traditions are governance, not theology. They bind A.A. groups and the Fellowship — not individuals, and not outside businesses. They were adopted in 1950 to keep A.A. from being owned or co-opted. They are not a rulebook for your personal life.
Daily Traditions is an independent educational resource from Recovery Starts — not official A.A. literature, not affiliated with Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, and not medical advice. The Twelve Traditions are the property of A.A. Page references are to Alcoholics Anonymous (the Big Book), 4th Edition: short form 561–562, long form 563–566. If you're in crisis, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline).